
Evan Clinger and fiancee Hanah Belnap study in a scene from a YouTube video discussing the impact of student loan debt in their relationship. (Cassie Arntsen)
Danielle Davis's journey is not uncommon. After graduating from high school, she started college and took out a few student loans. She got a job at a restaurant working 25 hours per week to help pay for extra expenses. And now, after only three years of school, she has accrued over $15,000 in debt — a looming amount of money that needs to be paid off within the next 15 years. But as Davis finishes her last year at Utah Valley University, she and many other recent graduates are finding out it’s not that easy.
“If you don’t have a job when you graduate, that’s when it’s going to get really hard to pay those off,” Davis said. “If you don’t have a job and can’t pay those off, you’re probably going to have to declare bankruptcy.”
Davis, like a lot of college students, is starting to feel the stress of loans taken out during undergraduate education. The average 2015 graduate with student loan debt will pay back some $35,000, according to an analysis of government data by Edvisors. Four out of five graduates
Many of these graduates are taking jobs for which they are underpaid and overqualified just so they can make their monthly payments. And the amount of money they owe the government not only causes them stress, but it is also impacting every part of their lives: relationships, marriage, credit score and retirement, just to name a few.
In 2014, nearly 70 percent of graduates
“Our big concern is that students are borrowing money out of context,' said Paul Conrad, a financial advisor
A failure to plan has led to many students defaulting
“I feel like it’s absolutely going to affect my future,” said Hannah Belnap, a family, home and social science major at BYU.
She’s one of the lucky ones: Having a father who teaches at BYU means she receives half-tuition, start to finish.
Her fiancé, though, is not so lucky. And marrying someone who owes
“All I’ve ever wanted to do is be a wife and a mother,' she said. 'And the idea that that could delay the process is kind of frustrating.'
Belnap's fiancé, Evan Clinger, said it’s nothing he has really worried about until now.
“Filling out my FAFSA every semester is just something I got in the habit of doing,' Clinger said. 'I make payments every month, and I have a job to pay some of it off, but after I take out more loans for graduate school I’m going to be owing money for a long time.'
BYU counselors also see student debt as a stressor in relationships.
“I think a lot of students who come for counseling, that loans are one of the big stressors that they have,' Barbara Morrell, a counselor at BYU
Morrell said many of the students who come to see her at BYU’s stress management office have large amounts of debt hanging over their heads. These students also have jobs, social lives and school to worry about. Morrell says a lot of them feel like these loans are putting their lives on hold. Some are conflicted about accepting less-than-ideal jobs just to pay the bills.
“I do think as millennials, there’s a weird paradigm of 'we’ll take any job,' but we also want the best job we can get at the same time,” Kaitlyn Spell, a senior at UVU, said.
Like a lot of college students, Spell manages a job, a full course load and a part-time unpaid internship.
“I actually just told my best friend last night, 'I’m sick and tired of being sick and tired, but I can’t stop because there’s too much to do,'” said Spell.
As many graduates are finding out, borrowing money for school has unintended consequences further down the road.
“Students need to start looking at what impact that has on accomplishing other goals,” warned Conrad, one of the financial advisors at BYU. “Nationally we hear about students putting off marriage. Something I think about is even the big goal of retirement. You have to get those seeds in the ground early and if it takes a long time to pay off loans, you may start that process too late.”
These serious issues have caused students across the country to protest student loans
'You live a few years the way most people won't, in order to live your life the way most people can't,' Spell said.